Christmas is a time of magic, warmth, and connection—a season that invites us to celebrate love and togetherness. Yet, for those who find themselves far from home, the holiday can evoke a bittersweet longing. My first Christmas in Cyprus in 2020 was a poignant reminder of this duality, but it also set the stage for a beautiful transformation that culminated in a truly unforgettable celebration in 2024.
A New Chapter Begins
When I arrived in Cyprus, I found myself living in a shelter for 11 long months. It was a time filled with uncertainty and heartache, as I missed my family deeply. The unfamiliar surroundings felt overwhelming, and I often yearned for the comfort of home. However, looking back, I realize that this challenging experience was a hidden blessing—one that would ultimately weave the fabric of my new life here.
Fast forward to Christmas 2024, and I can confidently say that this year’s celebration was nothing short of extraordinary. For the first time since moving here, I felt a profound sense of belonging. The turning point came when my godmother, Mariam, extended her warm invitation for my daughter and me to join her family for Christmas dinner. This simple gesture filled my heart with joy and hope; it meant we would not be alone after church .As Stelios’s family who use to invite us for Christmas go for celebration at Limassol .
The Joy of Two Invitations
Just when I thought our plans were set, another opportunity arose. Maria, my daughter’s godmother, expressed her desire to host us as well. Suddenly, I found myself facing a delightful dilemma: how could we honor both invitations? After discussing it with Mariam, we reached an agreement that would allow us to embrace the love from both families.
On Christmas Day, after attending church services at 10 AM, I rushed home to change my shoes—an act that felt like preparing for a grand adventure. Arriving at Maria’s parents’ home in Paralimni was like stepping into a scene from a holiday movie. An enormous Christmas tree twinkled with lights and ornaments, filling the room with an enchanting glow. The delightful aroma of traditional dishes wafted through the air as Maria’s mother busily cooked in the kitchen while her father prepared souvlaki outside.
A Celebration Like No Other
As family members gathered around the table, laughter and joy filled every corner of the house. Children played games while adults shared stories and engaged in lively conversations about life and culture. The atmosphere was electric—a vibrant tapestry woven from love and laughter that enveloped me like a warm embrace.
Despite savoring every bite of delicious food, I couldn’t help but feel overwhelmed by the sheer joy surrounding me. Maria’s mother insisted that I take some food home—an act of kindness that touched my heart deeply.
As evening approached, we made our way to Mariam’s house, where her family awaited us with open arms. Arriving late made me feel guilty; however, their genuine warmth washed away any apprehension. They greeted us with heartfelt hugs and gifts, making us feel like treasured members of their family. Mariam again, repeated that same act of kindnes by giving me some food to take home . I felt the abundance .
A Season of Gratitude
This year brought not only an abundance of love but also unexpected financial support that will help ease our rent burden in January—a true blessing as we step into the New Year. Reflecting on past Christmases spent alone or without invitations makes me appreciate this year even more profoundly.
I am endlessly grateful for the families who have embraced us here—Mariam’s family, Maria’s family, and so many others who have made us feel like part of their own tapestry of love and community. Their kindness has transformed our experience in Cyprus from one of isolation into one filled with connection and belonging.
Spread Love This Season
As we move forward into 2025, let us remember that love knows no boundaries—whether through shared meals or simple acts of kindness. If you have the opportunity this holiday season, reach out to someone who may be feeling alone or displaced. Your invitation could change their world.
In the inspiring words of Maya Angelou: “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” Let’s strive to make each other feel at home wherever we are.
May this New Year bring blessings of love, compassion, and connection for all! Together, let’s create a world where everyone feels cherished and celebrated—because every heart deserves to feel at home.
It was a pleasure having you and your daughter spend Christmas with my family and I. Thank you for being there with us ❤️